Finding a Gamer Boyfriend

Man..it's unbelievable how difficult to find someone to date around my age and into gaming..No offense to Pokemon..but come on!!! Are there no gay guys out there who are into RPG and Sci Fi games and actually want to date..it's like all the gay guys i've met over the years..all they know of videogames are either too old to know what a PSP is or are only aware of Pokemon and Nintendo wii...I'm not against Nintendo by any means..but come on!! I'm 30 years old and there's like no one around here. All my friends tell me that i should think outside the game console box and look for non-gamer boyfriends. I'm not sure why I can't let that go. I remember back in college..the first guy I ever hooked up with was into Magic: the gathering and video games..we even lived together for a few years..pretty much only as friends with benefits..and sadly..I feel in love with him, but he never felt the same way..I remember we'd spend countless weekends staying up all night playing though games like "Marvel Ultimate Alliance and City of heroes..we'd talk and laugh about characters we hated and loved in the games we played. I want something like that soo badly. Someone who i can actually play Halo with and have a good time with. Someone to debate with about who's a more bad ass character Master Chief or Bayonetta.